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Friday, January 25, 2008

Update




Some of you have been asking about Giovanni's case. I can tell you that things have been done a little out of order for him. We have confirmed that we are in PGN, very incomplete, and are waiting to be kicked-out so we can be submitted to family court. Usually, family court comes first. This is where a Guatemalan social worker reviews all your documents and issues his/her approval. Once that is received, your case moves on to PGN. Because of the concerns with the end of the year and the changes in adoption, our attorney decided to submit us to PGN first, knowing we'd be kicked-out, but by doing it this way, he'd be able to say that we were registered with PGN before the end of the year. So, our case should be allowed to continue.

Prayer requests...
  • That we are kicked-out of PGN soon (who EVER thought I'd be posting THAT as a prayer request?!?)

  • That the US Embassy issues our pre-approval soon

  • That Giovanni is receiving good, loving care and will somehow remember us and know that he has a family working very hard to bring him home

Thank you for continuing down this road with us.

Blessings,

Amy

Jeremiah 29:12-13 - In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me in earnest, you will find me when you seek me.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Our Visit

We had a wonderful time visiting our son. There is more to share than I could ever write. I'll try to give you some of the highlights. When we picked him up, we interrupted nap time. This is never a good way to start! Leaving the orphanage, he began to cry and was just inconsolable. We were with someone from our agency who wisely suggested stopping at McDonald's for french fries. Food is comforting in all languages! With a french fry in each hand, which he never actually ate, he settled down.

After returning to our hotel, our first stop was the embassy doctor's office. Being in an orphanage, Giovanni does not see a doctor on a regular basis. We were a little concerned about his general health. The doctor was very kind and did a complete physical on our son. We were glad to hear that everything appears normal, healthwise.

Then, it was back to the hotel for a quick bath and then down to the lobby to meet Samantha. After a round of introductions, we headed for Chuck E Cheese's. Yes, even in Guatemala, a kid can be a kid! We had a delightful time with our foster family. Both Samantha and Giovanni slept relatively well, all things considered.

The next morning at breakfast, we saw some of our first smiles from this sweet little boy. It seems that food brings out the best in him! There were glimpses during the weekend of a compassionate and caring little boy hidden inside. When Samantha would cry, he would get our attention, point to her, as if to say "She needs you" and then bring her a toy to console her. He willingly shared a playpen and toys with her. He tagged along wherever we took him. On Sunday, he began to really open up and venture out a little more. We saw more smiles and heard him babble a bit. Our foster family took to him like he was one of their own. Grandma fed him. Jenny rocked him to sleep. And Lucerno couldn't get enough of hugging and kissing him!

Through some unique circumstances, we ended up keeping him with us through our Embassy appointment on Tuesday morning. It was interesting having all five of our children with us for Embassy day! They were troopers. We got many comments on how well behaved they all were.

Tuesday afternoon, we returned Giovanni to the orphanage. This was incredibly difficult for all of us, but most so for our oldest children. It was somewhat easier, as he didn't seem at all reluctant to go back. When we walked up to the door of the orphanage, Giovanni grinned and pointed, as if he knew he was back where he was supposed to be for now. When we got back to the hotel, Jeffrey cried for about half and hour. We tried to console him, and reassure him that each day would be a little better and that soon Giovanni will be home with us for good. It helped a little. On the plane from Houston to Reno, Nathan looked at me and stated "I miss Giovanni."

What a blessing to have had that time together. We have heard that the Central Authority has been established and the attorneys were picking up applications this week to register existing cases. We also learned that our attorney submitted us, very incomplete, to PGN before the end of December, knowing we'll be kicked-out, but wanting to be able to say we were registered before the end of the year.

Our faith is strong, and we hope in a BIG God who can do far more than we can ask or imagine. Our family seems a little incomplete without Giovanni around. But, we are content, adjusting to Samantha and eagerly anticipating the day we will again be together as a family of seven! In the meantime, you can view pictures from our visit at the bottom of the blog.

Thank you for your continued prayers and support.

Blessings,
Amy

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. - Ephesians 3:20-21

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

A Family of SEVEN!

Because Giovanni is in an orphanage, standard procedure is that you visit him there and he doesn't leave the property. We just learned today that our attorney has gained permission for us to take Giovanni to our hotel for our stay in Guatemala. This was a huge and unexpected surprise. We will go out to the orphanage on Friday morning, pick him up and bring him back to our hotel. He will spend the weekend with us and we will most likely take him back on Monday afternoon. We remember how difficult it was to return Samantha to her foster family the first (and second) time. We can only imagine how difficult it will be to return our son to an orphanage. Please pray that we will continue to rely on God's grace and trust His plan. His hand is at work in all of this and we will enjoy the moments we have as a family of SEVEN! Needless to say, we'll have lots of pictures to share when we get home. I may even be able to update from the Radisson this time. We'll see how it goes.

Blessings,
Amy

Friday, January 4, 2008

At a Stand Still

We received the following message, forwarded from our adoption agency this morning...

Dear Guatemala caucus members,

Joint Council can confirm that PGN is no longer processing adoption cases with the exception of those that have already been approved. All other aspects of adoption processing have been stopped.

This is a result of the new adoption law requiring the registration of cases with the Central Authority prior to cases being reinitiated. Joint Council continues to advocate for a position solution to the situation.

Our case for Giovanni has not yet entered PGN. We're not sure what it means for us, but we are committed to doing whatever God asks us to do to bring Giovanni home. Please join us in praying that the Guatemalan government will provide a way for the children in process to come home.

As always, we'll keep you posted.

Blessings,
Amy

Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails - Proverbs 19:21

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

DVD

We just received a DVD from our agency with pictures and video of Giovanni. It was obvious that he was very unsure of the video camera. He tried hard not to cry, but his little shoulders shook a bit until a young girl picked him up. The orphanage appears to be clean and bright. Our hearts were touched by the sadness in his eyes, but also for the young girl in the video caring for him. We don't know her story, why she's there, or what life holds for her. It causes us to wonder and to pray. I'll try to post some of the pictures and maybe a short video clip, if I can figure out how in the world to get them off the DVD. It may be easier to just wait until after our visit in January and post from those!

Blessings,
Amy

Together

Together
A Family of Seven!